Thursday, August 19, 2010

Girls: Can you please give me some advice please?

About a year ago my gf lost her mother. She had a horrible relationship with her, but not until after her death, it really affected her.





Now sometimes she goes in these moods, where she won't talk anyone. Its been 3 days and I have called numerous times and she wont answer me or anything.





I really don't know how to do deal with it. I really love her but I can't take this BS. I am thinking of breaking up with her.





What Should I do?Girls: Can you please give me some advice please?
***Maybe you both need a break.....offer to be there for her but also tell her that you cannot have a relationship with her if she cannot communicate with you.***Girls: Can you please give me some advice please?
That sounds probable. Break up with your girlfriend when she's in a troubled state, just to make her feel worse. If she wants to be alone, let her be alone. She'll contact you when she is ready. Since she wont talk to you, how are you going to break up with her? Leave her a message? Better yet, a text? Her feelings are BS to you? Maybe she doesn't want to talk to anybody about it right now. Learn to understand. You're relationships are never going to go anywhere if you bail in troubled times.
Dude. Its only been a year. I would be screwed up too if I lost my mom. I have a relay good relationship with her so I'd take me more than a single year. If you love her deal with her moods. It'll get better. Though if you just act like a jerk and break it off you will cause her even more pain. Don't talk to her cuddle her touch her. (not inappropriately.) Tell her you love her. Thats what she needs.
You need to tell her that what she is doing is ridiculous and she shouldn't treat you like that.





Just talk to her and see if she'll change her attitude.





If not, I think you should break up with her. You shouldn't stay with someone is isn't treating you right.
talk to her about it. i dont blame you for wanting to break up with her but if you do she will blame herself for everything.


it will be really hard to handle that: your mom dying and then your bf breaking up with you. yes, definently talk to her about it.
you know she is probably having trauma issues and your probably gonna cause her even more trauma if you break up with her. you have to be there for her.. she cant help her mood, just stand strong with her because once your gone she will have no one probably. try going to her place to see if she is alright.
stay with her but give her some space


she lost her mother of course she is going to be all moody and ****


you think breaking up with her will make her feel better no


i say give it sometime if you really Love her like you said
Right now, THE WORST thing you could do would be to break up with her. Stay with her but give her some space. She'll talk to you when she's ready.
don't break up with her


be more understanding


she probably just needs some alone time


ask her whats wrong and if she wants too she will tell u she'll tell u


let time work this **** out
bake her something, bring It to her house and start a conversation.
when she gets out of this mood, talk to her about this tell her how her actions are affecting you and your relationship. she must be going through a hard time right now, and if you broke up with her, that could make it even worse. she needs someone to be there for her, whether she knows it or not. try to be understanding and listen to how she feels. dont be rash. i hope you get through this fine.

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