What advice would you give to me, a 14 year old, on life?

Don't do what Britney and paris do. get a good education and find something you love to do, and make a living doing it. good luck.What advice would you give to me, a 14 year old, on life?
You deserve and can have everything you will ever want, only as long as you are willing to pay the price and work for it.





The world owes you nothing.





You have only one life - that is not a choice you get to make. You can have many different futures, many different friends, and many different dreams - those are the choices you have to make.What advice would you give to me, a 14 year old, on life?
male/female?





You're at a tough and fun part of your life. Your social scene is probably high priority, but your responsibilities aren't at adult level as your mind is constantly maturing. You've probably got a lot of time on your hands, and use it productively! Think about your goals for high school, which could be a ticket into college or trade school.





But most importantly, rise about the high school hiearchy. The ';cool'; kids (even if you are one) now will not be cool anymore the minute they graduate. After high school, it just doesn't matter!! Don't get caught up in the shallowness of having to have a certain brand of clothes, or dating certain people for status. Be above cliques, above cliches, and above the limited maturity level of your peers. Establish your independence, and treat all people well and equally.





Because in adulthood, in the ';real'; world, no one cares if you were mr/mrs popular or the biggest nerd. Shallow people only care because they'd don't have the intelligence to think beyond.





Oh, and I know everyone says it, but hold off on sex if you have ANY doubts. Always, always protect your body and your mind. And if people treat you badly and don't change, let them go. There's a whole world of people who will treat you well out here.
Be patient with old people, especially your grandparent, if they are still alive. I know it's hard to do this but someday you will be the old one and will regret it if you were not nice to your senior family and friends.





Don't stay in a relationship (boyfriend or girlfriend) with anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself.





Nobody will like you if you don't like yourself.





Try to choose your career early and pursue it. Don't fool around trying to find yourself. You can always change course later but if you never get started you'll regret it in the end.





Also, take care of your body. It is the only one you have.
Think about what you plan to do with your life for the next year, the next five years and the next 10 years. Write this plan down. Oh , did I say WRITE THIS PLAN DOWN? Put it in a scribbler or notebook and look at it once in awhile. You will be surprised how much of your list you will accomplish. Look at your own person - what needs developing or improving? You want to be taller, more muscular, thinner more athletic, more confident, less zits?? Write it down. Look at your current employment interests. You can change these things as you go, but if you have no map, you are more likely to get lost. So Write it Down.





And yeah have fun, enjoy life, tell people close to you that you love them and get plenty of sleep. Be as nice to people as you can be but don't let them walk all over you. Set boundaries and let others know that you expect respect. Enjoy your life, your health, your youth and your energy.
Just dont rush to grow up, enjoy what life has to offer because it will go by very fast. Dont have sex without protection, dont get involved with drugs, drinking or smoking....you WILL regret it if you do. and last but not least, i'm not a country music lover but there is a really great song that you should listen to, and take what he says seriously...it's ';You're gonna miss this'; by Trace Adkins. you can find it on youtube. that is an amazing song and it is very true!
Live well








don't waste your time on anything or take anything for granite





this could be some of the best years of your life





they were for me





I don't if you've sought for love





but someone does love you, you just have to open your eyes





Jesus loves you and he will change your life if you





Believe





';For God so loved the world (you) that he gave his only begotten son (Jesus) that whoever (you) believes in him shall not die but have everlasting life'; John 3:16





The life he gives you will be at ease for you know he is there.





Jesus died for your sin so you are already forgiven





call his name and he will come and you will be reborn.

















'; everything is spiritual ';


Rob Bell
(coming from a 15 year old) don't procrastinate once you get to high school, it seems easy at first because you can get away with it but like a drug you gradually do it more and more until your turning stuff in late or not at all. ';Procrastinating is like masturbating, its fun for a while but in the end your just screwing yourself.';
Above all else, be honest to yourself and others.


Respect adult decisions and rules.


Learn all you can about life by observing, reading and asking the right questions.


DO NOT TAKE DRUGS AND ALCOHOL OR SMOKE CIGARETTES.


Be the best person you can be and you will go far, my young friend.


Be kind and forgiving.


Pick friends, peer groups and mentors, wisely.


Keep a good healthy diet.


Respect women.


Strive for the gold but do not be obnoxious about getting it.


Play fair and be fair to the losers.


Don't following anyone blindly, know your options and outcomes.


I like you for asking the question.
Life is too short for all of the bullshit that we have to go through everyday.


Live life to the fullest.


Do things that make you happy.


Be carefree for as long as you can.


Stay focused on school now and it will pay off later.


Life is like a one way street. The mistakes you have made should be left behind you.


Be happy with yourself, love who you are, and don't forget to put God first in your life because without him nothing is possible. (if you are atheist then disregard that)
1. don't screw up and don't lose your parents trust


2. have as much fun as possible but nothing bad to get you in trouble with the law


3. get your education.. when its time to learn, do your best. theres a time to have fun with friends and theres a time to be serious too. it pays off!


4. dont do drugs 'cause they only take you further than you wanna go


5. don't waste your time stressing over little stuff


6. if you ever think about having sex and you can't wait then use protection, birthcontrol and all that other stuff.


7. be yourself and never be something you are not


...dont be fake....
Don't rush life %26amp; continue to be a kid. So don't act older than you already are - you have the rest of your life to be an adult!





Don't take your parents for granted. My mother passed away and i didn't realize until after the fact she was gone, that she did a helllll of a lot of work around the house.





Have fun, life isn't all about being serious.
Finish school...get a degree in something you love doing.





Have fun know and try not to rush growing up..don't worry it will happen faster than you think.





Start saving your money now...from your allowance..or part time job..put it in a savings account...so when you're ready for that car..or for that down payment on a condo or house...the money will be there waiting for you.





And this should be said...don't do drugs or drink or smoke...it doesn't make you cool..it just makes you smell.
Always try your best. Be true to yourself (don't let others tell you how you should be). Choose something you love to be your career, nothing is worse than working 40 years at a job you hate - no matter how much money you are making. Don't jump into a relationship, just to be in one. Find a girl who truly appreciates you for who you are. Don't go into debt to buy things that are not necessities.
The best advice I could give you is to ask the lord into your life. Everything you do in life should be pleasing to him. If you live by that then you'll be alright. Not to say you wont mess up, we all do but that's why we have Gods grace. Be blessed sweetie.
dont do what i did at your age. i dated the same guy through high school and spent all my time with him rather than my friends. i should have been doing high school things. not acting like i was married. there is plenty of time to do that after high school. !
Uh, popularity doesnt matter because the minute you enter college, it doesnt mean anything. Everyone is equal in college, there are not ';popular'; people when it comes to that.
just take it easy, be yourself. you gotta live your life to the fullest cuz the sky is the limit. dont live for no one else but yourself. just have fun. besides your only 14 years old no need to worry!!!! :-)
Decisions you make now and a few years from now will affect the rest of your life. Make the best choices possible. Always remember your parents loves you and they are there for you whenever you need them........ Good luck!
get ready for a rough few years. HAVE FUN!!





one day ur on top of the world, and the next day you can very well be in the deepest of valleys.
Don't go all emo, don't self-pity, grow past your mistakes, don't take everything too seriously at this time but don't slack off on your grades either.


Don't drink or do drugs!
Get good grades, dont drink or do drugs. Dont get pregnate, get involved in religion and give your parents a hug everyday and tell them you love them no matter how mad you are at them
Watch what you feed your mind.





You become what you put in there








Dont get married just because everyone else ( your age) is doing it.
Be unique and stay clear from making mistakes that you can prevent. You will regret them later. And one more thing...you don't know everything...your just learning.
I'm only a year older than you, but if I've learned one thing, it's this:


TELL PEOPLE WHAT THEY MEAN TO YOU.


I can't say it enough. I have regretted not doing this for so long :(
stay in school, don't do drugs and don't get anybody pregnant..... (don't get pregnant)
Don't play it safe...


get involved in school activities, sports, clubs or after school programs...


be active...
enjoy your feel and don't waste it by wishing you were eighteen its a waste of time and really its not as fun as it sounds
have fun life is short so sometimes you got to take risks





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dont let other people push you around just be yourself
Don't take life to serious have fun!


live it up!


and do NOT take life for granted.


And smile a ton!
try not to act like a slut or really be one


eat tofu for digestion and basically rise your teeth after vomitting with your little friends lol.